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Rori Raye * Blog Home Siren Island! Feminine Energy Workshop Rori Raye Method Coach Training Private Coaching Programs Members Getting On the Love Train No Matter How Angry You Feel! By Rori Raye | May 6, 2024 We’re all so different. Your history is so different from others. Anger is a big deal. I know I’ve exploded” like anybody else. I’ve also stuffed it down like so many of us. I’ve fallen prey to my anger and rage – not as a useful thing – but as an enemy”, destructive kind of thing. I want to stop that for you, before you start. So, I’ve really put this together from a lot of different places that I believe you can actually use right now to make a big difference in your energy level, into what you see out there, into how you relate to men and to everybody else, even bosses. It doesn’t matter who. The anger you’re experiencing is in direct proportion to the energy and the effort that you are putting out. Think of this in a romantic way: You’re feeling crunchy. You’re feeling angry. You’re feeling untouched. You’re feeling unloved. And yet, your instinct, because of your unique background and the way you do things, is to be nice to… Read more and leave a comment or question for Rori » Read More Get New, Rori Raye Siren School Tools And Advice - PLUS "The 5 Steps Jane Took To Get Jim's Commitment" free guide - - all here on my "Private List"! What To Do When He Says Or Does Something That Hurts Emotionally By Rori Raye | May 3, 2024 So, he’s saying something that hurts. That feels like a separation, a disconnect. You just sort of back up emotionally, maybe even physically step back…or, you start feeling the anger and rage boil up, your fists are clenched, your body gets tight, your face goes rigid…ready for a fight, ready to run, ready to swing, ready to swing at yourself instead. If you’re on The Modern Siren track” – a moment comes where you become aware of ALL of that! You can feel your whole body tense, you can feel the words stuck inside you and wanting to come out and do damage to him, or push him away, or run away yourself and cut yourself off from him forever…extremes on all ends…and you realize it all! – that, oh my gosh, I feel this.! So, if I’m on the love train I go, You know what? I feel love for myself, I feel love for this room.” Already that makes me want to cry. I feel love for my hand that tells me because I wanted to cry that I opened up. I got off the mental train and I got onto the love train, and I opened up, and I felt sad. I felt moved. Very helpful. helpful catch. So, he says this, and I feel this. And now I love myself and I love this room and I love outside and I’m expanding, and I love life, I love being alive, I love feeling alive, and whatever’s going on here, I can feel it and I can express it in a different way. I can say, Ooh, I’m feeling a lump in my stomach.” He’ll probably go, Huh? What?” I’m just feeling a lump in my stomach. I want to make this absolutely clear – we’re not excusing” him for bad behavior. We’re not skipping over it, or ignoring it, or sweeping it under the rug. All we’re doing here is becoming aware of everything we’re feeling and thinking. Learning to feel everything we’re feeling instead of burying it, and, at the same time, processing it all in a way that allows you to respond” with your truest feelings, instead of reacting” with old patterns that don’t really mean anything for you Responding with the deepest truthfulness you can unearth will get you to what you Want, and reacting will literally get you nowhere near what you Want. Check out The Feminine Energy WANT Course – it’s a total shortcut to changing the dynamic between you and a man literally overnight. Once you learn the WANT 6-Steps, you’ll be amazed how much more confident, steady and okay” you feel no matter what’s going on…and how men suddenly start to hear” you, respond to you, and are willing to brave getting emotionally closer to you when you ask for what you want! Love, Rori From Anger To Love With Wonder Woman’s Help By Rori Raye | May 2, 2024 You’re standing with a man you like, or love, or can’t stand at all – and you’re feeling angry. We’re using the metaphor and imagery of Wonder Woman here, to make it more fun and easy – so let yourself imagine Wonder Woman’s choice’s, feelings, thoughts, if she were here experiencing what you’re experiencing right this moment. She’s automatically processing (because it’s her nature to process this way) – and let’s say her first feelings, like yours, are rage…yet, they then go to a different place, to what she Wants, and the Love she feels in a powerful way: I’m just loving people, myself, who I need to protect, and everyone around me and everything, and life in general and power, and I’m going to move” for that. I’m sorry, I have to fight you, I may have to kill you. That feels terrible and sad. And yet, I can’t let you hurt this other person.” Very different than, How dare you? I’m just going to get rid of you…” And if you’re anything like me, you have that How dare you? I’m just going to get rid of you…” feeling… Read more and leave a comment or question for Rori » What To Say When He Freezes You Out – Video By Rori Raye | April 20, 2024 Everything about ghosting, his dropping contact” and disappearing, his taking a week off” of connecting with you or texting with you can make us feel literally crazy. We can feel like we’re missing something. Like we did something, or didn’t do something that was crucial, that he picked up on, that changed everything between us. And we instantly become determined to fix” whatever happened. As we start building that energy up of wanting to fix” it – we literally start pushing our enrgy at him – which instantly pushes him away even further If left alone, he most often calls or texts again… (If he doesn’t, then let’s look at how to quickly get past that painful experience and rise above it…a whole other video series…) – and this is the moment where you can make a difference – and feel SO much better! To get help from brilliant coaches with the right words to say – and Tools to quickly drop into your Feminine Energy so you’ll draw him to hear what you say – try out the Siren Island Program here: Love, Rori When He Finally Thaws Out And Comes Back! Video By Rori Raye | April 18, 2024  Hi, so he’s thawed out. He’s returned from his man cave. He moves towards you like nothing ever happened when he pulled away. But you’re still feeling resentment and a little bit often upset that he pulled away in the first place and went frozen on you. So what do you do? Well, this is where the warmth part of everything I always talk about comes in. Yes, you feel everything. You feel the real frustration and the anger and the resentment and how dare he and act as if nothing ever happened and how dare he be so cavalier about you and not caring and all those feelings are in you. And you also have feelings of love for him, otherwise you wouldn’t be there with him, right? You love him, you feel warm, you want to welcome him, you want to touch him, you want him to hug you and be all over you, and you want him to contribute to the love feeling of your relationship again. So that’s what you just simply entertain. You feel all those things, which fills your energy, that makes you so radiant, all that emotional energy, and you go for the entertaining of the one that feels good to you …which is love!… so you smile, you open your heart. You let yourself be open to him. You let him move towards you. You let there be connection, and you say something like feels so good to be connected with you again. And it feels so good to be touched. And ooh, feels good. Just simple like ooh, feels good. And then when you feel ready, you can start a conversation, you know? I feel really weird and uncomfortable when I don’t hear from you. And I don’t know what to do. Got any ideas? He’ll just say, Well, that’s your thing.” Well, that’s okay. okay? So we’re...